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Surrogacy Timelines – why it’s best to get ahead of the game.

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With the end of the year fast approaching it’s only natural to start to think about 2022 and what it is you hope to achieve in the new year. For those considering fertility treatment, especially via surrogacy, it’s important to understand the timelines involved so you can plan ahead. By understanding each step it becomes easier to see how this process might fit around your existing schedule. It helps to create realistic expectations for everyone involved. One of the helpful aspects of the Surrogacy timeline is the option to break it down into key stages. Allowing you the time to take a break before moving onto the next step.

For people at the very start of the process it’s important to arrange an initial consultation now to ensure you can reach exciting landmarks in 2022.

What are the key stages of the CRGH Surrogacy process?

The CRGH Surrogacy process can be broken down into six key stages:

Initial Consultation

Initial Consultation – This is the very first appointment with your CRGH Doctor, where (as intended parents) you will discuss your medical and fertility history as well as the different treatment options available to you. If you’re fortunate enough to already have a surrogate in place they will have a separate consultation with the doctor to ensure they are suitable to carry the pregnancy and aware of the process involved. However, most intended parents are only matched with a surrogate much later in the process, once your embryos have been created.

Implications Counselling

Implications Counselling – CRGH will arrange for you and your surrogate to speak with our Counsellor to ensure everyone involved fully understands the implications of Surrogacy treatment. In the UK this is a mandatory step in the Surrogacy process and one which many people find incredibly helpful. Our expert counsellors encourage you to ask any questions you might have and ensure you have all the information you need from an emotional perspective.

Semen Analysis and freezing

Semen Analysis and freezing – Once you have decided how to proceed you will usually undergo a semen analysis to ensure the quality of your semen is sufficient to give the best chance of creating healthy embryos. Once you have these results you can freeze a “sample” – which will be thawed and used to create embryos at a later date. One aspect which is often overlooked in this part of the process is the mandatory requirement for the sample to undergo a “quarantine” period of at least 3 months. This step ensures there are no underlying infections or issues with the sperm which are not apparent immediately. Should you like, you could pause after this stage, content in the knowledge that your suitable sample is safely stored and ready for use when needed.

Finding an Egg Donor

Finding an Egg Donor – unless you are fortunate enough to have a “known donor” ready to donate eggs, the next step is to find an Egg Donor with characteristics which match what you are looking for. CRGH has our own egg donation programme which matches you with donors as they become available – the timeline is usually dependent on how specific your required characteristics are. Once the donated eggs are in place, your frozen sample can be thawed and used to create embryos to be frozen. This hugely exciting step gives you as intended parents another opportunity to pause in the knowledge your embryos are safely frozen and ready for use once you have a surrogate in place.

Finding a surrogate

Finding a surrogate – For most intended parents it is at this point that the search for a suitable surrogate really begins. Using organisations such as My Surrogacy Journey you will be matched with suitable surrogates. After a “get to know period” (usually around 3 months) to ensure you’re all happy with the partnership the surrogate will have an initial consultation, counselling and any relevant investigations at CRGH to prepare her for the embryo transfer.

Embryo Transfer

Embryo Transfer – This is the exciting culmination of the process, where your embryo is thawed and transferred to your surrogate. After 10 days your surrogate can come to CRGH for a blood test to confirm the results of the embryo transfer, which is hopefully positive. CRGH then looks after the surrogate up until the 12th week of pregnancy at which point they will be referred to antenatal care locally. If, unfortunately, the transfer was unsuccessful you will work closely with your consultant to understand why and create a plan for the next steps.

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We hope this outline has helped your understanding of the surrogacy process and helped you to plan for 2022. CRGH are currently booking initial consultations for January 2022 – get in touch now to arrange an appointment.

Michael Johnson-Ellis is Dad to Talulah and Duke, step Dad to Katie, and husband to Wes. Since having children Michael changed his career from a stressful city job, to being an award winning Surrogacy advocate, supporting those who are struggling to conceive or are from the LGBTQ community, and dream of parenthood. Michael blogs and documents his life as a parent via TwoDadsUK® on Facebook and Instagram. Michael and Wes are both founders of TwoDadsUK®(www.TwoDadsUK.com), The Modern Family Show 2021 (the only UK LGBTQ family building event, and the latest Surrogacy not for profit organisation My Surrogacy Journey®(www.mysurrogacyjourney.com). Michael also writes for IVF Babble, the world’s largest online fertility magazine and has recently established IVF Babble LGBT. Michael recently was awarded one of the twenty two Census purple plaques, recognising his work to the trying to conceive community. TwoDadsUK has collaborated with brands such as Cow & Gate Baby Club, Audi, Save The Children, Vodafone, Sainsburys, and appeared on TV such as BBC Breakfast, CBeebies and Channel 4 to name a few.

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